Sex chat by housewife with guy
We chat with each other practically every day and I continue to tell him how I feel about him and he is expressing the same feelings, only that he doesn’t want to cause or be the cause of a broken marriage.
The furthest we have gotten though is expressing our feelings to each other.
However if it really bothering you sit down and tell her how you feel. If that was an agreement that they wouldnt message each other during these days, why was it? Don't be nasty, angry or even cold - Just pull yourself back. Not a moody, needy, pathetic individual but a self assured individual secure in the knowledge that they have value. All questions about the marriage should be put on hold, until your spouse wants to talk about it (which may not be for quite a while). I believe that all of their encounters were purely emotional until last month when they ran off into hiding together.
Ask what they talk about and if you still feel uneasy ask her to see her texts with him just so you feel at ease. About chatting during early hours, she says he sometimes was travelling and was messaging. Please advise, your comments would really be appreciated and surely will be helpful. You need to stop this now, try Lee Baucom's save you marriage stuff.
She flew into his line of vision, caught his attention for a few seconds, then flew off, out of his mind.
Sounds like a more how are you how was your day deal. Be patient and learn to not only listen carefully to what your spouse is really saying to you? Still more important, it will burst their positive little bubble; the one in which they believe that they can always come back to you in case things don't work out with the OM/OW." (Poodlepapa) Found the same thing with my wife and her man friend text Messages, I don't think it's the number of text messages it's the content...
But I didn't tell my significant other because I didn't really think it mattered because we were just friends. The worrying fact was that the messages were happening throughout the day and lasting upto midnight averaging to abt 15. Strangely, no messages at all during the days I was at home (my off days which are saturday and sunday and other days I dint work). Make yourself be someone they would want to be around. She claims she rented him a suite hotel so that they were not in a bedroom.
Once men start to see a partner as The One, researchers have found that fear of loss or rejection can trigger a release of the mating hormones, testosterone and vasopressin, that drive his possessive mating instincts wild.
So, your partner couldn't have stopped his eyes from looking at her breasts even if he'd tried - but he could learn to be more discreet.